17 to 18

17 to 18

Monday, November 5, 2007

Looking back and Forward

Last year, I went with Mr. Magee and I believe it was 41 (?) of my classmates to Biloxi, Mississippi. I can honestly say I have never had such a great time doing service. Because there is still so much to do down there because of Hurricane Katrina, Back Bay Mission provided us with different tasks throughout the week which kept us busy and entertained.

The first day we were there I worked with about eight or nine other girls at the Commuinity Center parking lot. I was definitely not expecting to be powerwashing an entire parking lot and using a pick ax to break ground for a patio, I am not the strongest person. I was frustrated at first because I had no idea how helping seal this parking lot was so helpful to the community. Someone later explained to me that it's just the finishing touches on these projects that make them so much better. At the end of the week I saw the gorgeous patio some of the girls built all by themselves and the nicely sealed parking lot.

The rest of the week I spent one day in a soup kitchen, a few days scraping and painting a porch (as well as meeting many homeless who were living in cars in the backyard), and scraping and caulking a whole house. I learned quickly that all of these jobs took patience and a LOT of time.

The last night we were there, all of the students and adults that were on the trip got together in one big circle and shared what we learned and our experiences that touched us and that we would keep with us in our hearts from that day on. I didn't see one person in that room that wasn't crying. Biloxi was such a valuable journey for so many of us that went.

This year, I am going back to Biloxi more excited and nervous that I went last year. I hope all that are going this year will have as good as an experience as my classmates and I had last year and I know it will be wonderful. I look forward to this year and all of the new seniors coming with us!
Peace.
Annie Gerker (Senior 2008)

I Miss Biloxi

When signing up for the Biloxi experience I never could have guessed the impact that the trip would have on my life. It was only a week long, but the things that I saw and learned were lifelong lessons. I was given the opportunity to work at a place where we became very close with the owner of the house. He had little to give us, but he always greeted us with a smile, entertained us with some dancing, or encouraged our work. The work was so fun and rewarding that I never wanted to leave. Not only did we grow as individuals on this trip, but we also grew as a community. The bonds that I created with all of the girls on the trip will last me for the rest of my life and it is great to know that our hardwork has left an imprint on the people of Biloxi.

~Kung Fu Fighting~

My Biloxi Experience

Going to Biloxi was one of those experiences I have had with Nerinx that I look back on and say that it has shaped who I am and who I am becoming. A service trip like this one is something that every Nerinx girl and every girl in general should experience. Because we are so detached from the great devastation around the world and even in our own country, this trip lets us know that we are not immortal and that life is precious. It also shows the power and strength of the human spirit that emerges even in times of hardship. The smiles we saw from all the people in Biloxi who had nothing, who lost families, friends, houses, jobs; they are the images that will stick with me the longest from this trip. I want every girl at Nerinx to experience what I did in Biloxi, Mississippi.

Hannah "Boots" McHenry

Biloxi=THE GREATEST!!!

My work cites were the blue house, the parking lot, and the Loaves and Fishes Soup Kitchen. The Biloxi service trip was an experience that I can never get back, and it was one of the most rewarding acts of service I have ever done.

Kelsey Finnegan '08

My Experience At Back Bay Mission

My experience at Back Bay Mission was very moving for me. Before going on the trip I never thought that I could truly make someone cry from happiness at something I did for them. After I saw Sharon cry when we presented her the porch I now want to make more people cry out of happiness. This experience has showed me my true potential for what I can do in the world. I used to think that I would have to go down in the history books or do something great, but after this trip I now know that when I affect someone’s life or just their day by helping them out I will go down in their heart and they will hopefully rub off on other people. I have also noticed how I am more willing to help out people I care for or just need help.

And we begin again...

If you are reading this, you probably attended our first meeting tonight.
I think a good way to start is to remember ArchBishop Romero's prayer.

It helps, now and then, to step back and take a long view.

The kingdom is not only beyond our efforts,
it is even beyond our vision.

We accomplish in our lifetime only a tiny fraction
of the magnificent enterprise that is God's work.
Nothing we do is complete, which is a way of saying
that the kingdom always lies beyond us.
No statement says all that could be said.
No prayer fully expresses our faith.
No confession brings perfection.
No pastoral visit brings wholeness.
No program accomplishes the church's mission.
No set of goals and objectives includes everything.

This is what we are about.
We plant the seeds that one day will grow.
We water seeds already planted,
knowing that they hold future promise.

We lay foundations that will need further development.
We provide yeast that produces far beyond our capabilities.

We cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation
in realizing that. This enables us to do something,
and to do it very well. It may be incomplete,
but it is a beginning, a step along the way,
an opportunity for the Lord's grace to enter and do the rest.

We may never see the end results, but that is the difference
between the master builder and the worker.

We are workers, not master builders; ministers, not messiahs.
We are prophets of a future not our own.
Amen.

As we start to begin our process, I hope that you keep our 2008 group
in our prayers. I have already asked those students who were part of our group in 2006 and 2007 to pray for this group.

They agreed enthusiastically, they all know what is in store for this group and enjoy thinking about where your daughter will be going.

Mr. Magee

Friday, June 15, 2007

A Week in Biloxi

My experience in Biloxi is one I'll never forget. Before we left, I wasn't sure what to expect. I didn't feel completely prepared, and I remember thinking, "I've never put up drywall," and worrying that I wouldn't know how to do the work we were going to be doing in Biloxi. However, those worries were put aside after the first day of work. I was in the parking lot group who worked at the East Biloxi Coordinating Center. On Monday, we power washed the entire parking lot (so that it could be sealed the next day) and leveled the ground for a patio. I've never used a power washer, but I found out that it didn't matter if I didn't know how to do something because I would soon learn. At first we weren't too keen on power washing a parking lot for an entire day, but when we found out what the EBCC buildings were for, we realized that this project was indeed important, and it needed to be done. The EBCC is where all the volunteer programs in Biloxi meet and coordinate. The next day, we finished the patio, which was very exciting. It was nice to know that employees, volunteers, and clients would enjoy sitting on the patio that we had just completed.

The next project that I worked on was the blue house. I loved painting this house the very bright blue that it now is. On Friday, the last day of work, we finished about an hour before we thought we would. This sounds cliche, but with all of us working together, we accomplished a lot in a short amount of time. That is one thing I took away from this trip. I've realized that it doesn't matter who we are or where we are from, but if we want to accomplish something, and we work hard to accomplish it, then we can.

Tuesday, June 12, 2007

Prayers

Please keep the family and friends of Lesley O., Class of '07,
in your prayers.
I received word that her courageous battle ended this morning
at 4 am with her family with her.

I know Lesley's family and friends would appreciate
your prayers and good thoughts.

Lesley's Obituary is in Wednesday's Post.

Monday, June 11, 2007

Wow

I've been home from Biloxi for a while now, but I can't stop talking about it. I know my friends have got to get sick of listening to my stories from Biloxi. It was just so amazing though, for many reasons. Not only did I get to spend a week with amazing people , but I got to help people who really needed it with those people. My group built a deck, with a ramp and roof over it. It looked so good when we were finished. I couldn't believe we built it. We built it for a woman who had a stroke a few years ago and she was so appreciative. It felt really good. I was really glad we were able to help her. However, it was really sad seeing how some of the people down there had been mistreated. For instance, at the same house we built the deck the house had shingling falling off and many parts of the house, inside and out, were uneven. My intial reaction to the inside of her house was wow this is nicer than mine: then i walked across the hardwood floors. I sunk down about a foot and rose back up during this walk. We also met people from Habitat for Humanity who were working across the street from us. They were telling us the story of the house they were working on and how the woman who owned it had payed a carpenter, who said he was a minister, $20,000 to fix everything. He installed the cabinets wrong, the sheets of dry wall weren't even, and there were electric sockets that led to nothing, just to name a few things and left and told her the house was ready to move into. I just can't believe that people would take advantage of the victims of the hurricane so much.
Another part of Biloxi that had a huge impact on me was the second house on which I worked. We built another ramp, this time coming off of their porch for a woman in a wheelchair named Lucy. That's not what affected me. It was a little seven year old boy I talked to while we were building. While we were waiting for more wood, I took a water break and talked with him for a little while. He asked me what we were building, as he rode around on his bike with no breaks, and I told him a bike ramp just for him. He told me about the different places he lived after Katrina and which place was his favorite. I then asked him if he was on summer vacation yet and he told me he was. I asked him if he liked school and what his favorite subject was. He informed me he loved school and his favorite subject was math... but sometimes spelling too. He was seven. Most kids that age would respond recess or gym if asked their favorite subject. I looked around and wanted to start crying. His house was pretty bad off, and I don't know that it was all due to the hurricane and all of his uncles and cousins were sitting around in the back yard in the middle of the day. I'm not judging them for that, but I do know that this little boy wouldnt have half as many oppertunities with his education as those which I've been blessed. He made me realize to appreciate what I do have and not always want more. We finished the ramp and let our new friend try out his ramp. He loved it.
This trip was so amazing and I just want to say thank you to Mr. Magee and all the dads who went on it. They all were so awesome and it was so much fun spending time with them. It really meant a lot to me.

—Jenn Halaz

Saturday, June 9, 2007

Biloxi

It’s almost been a week since we’ve been home but I can’t stop thinking about Biloxi. Every time I see new pictures on facebook I seem to miss it more and when I got my picture developed I wanted to drive back right then. It took me 2 hours to explain pictures to my mom because every picture reminded me of 5 stories that I just had to tell. She didn’t seem to understand some or didn’t really see the importance of others. I’m so happy that not only did I get to partake in such an amazing experience but I got to do so with my dad. At first I thought it would be awkward or annoying having him around but once the week got started he became friends with the other fathers and friends with all the girls. My dad realizes how amazing this week was and helps me try to explain it to others.
Last week I worked on the Heidenheim house. That is the house with no siding, no rooms, no insulation, and no roof. I loved it! I love when people asked me what I did down in Biloxi because I can say without lying that I literally built a house. Even though getting 30 splinters and hammering the same finger 3 times was a blast I must say interacting with the people of Biloxi, the homeowners, and my classmates and fathers was the best part of the trip.
The first couple of days I worked on my house the results were hard to see. I knew we had worked hard and it seemed like we got a lot done throughout the day but looking at the house it didn’t look much different. As the week went on and the roof got built and the list of things to do suddenly got a little shorter I knew we were making a difference in this one man’s life.
Friday night was the best night of the trip. 40 teenage girls, 18 full grown men, and 2 moms sitting in a circle with most crying at some point. Listening to all the other houses stories and listening to everyone’s experiences of the trip taught me even more then I already learned. I will miss Biloxi every time I think of it and I plan on returning at some point to give William and Shorty a visit.

Biloxi

It’s almost been a week since we’ve been home but I can’t stop thinking about Biloxi. Every time I see new pictures on facebook I seem to miss it more and when I got my picture developed I wanted to drive back right then. It took me 2 hours to explain pictures to my friend because every picture reminded me of 5 stories that I just had to tell. I’m so happy that not only did I get to partake in such an amazing experience but I got to do so with my dad. At first I thought it would be awkward or annoying having him around but once the week got started he became friends with the other fathers and friends with all the girls. My dad realizes how amazing this week was and helps me try to explain it to others.
Last week I worked on the Heidenheim house. That is the house with no siding, no rooms, no insulation, and no roof. I loved it! I love when people asked me what I did down in Biloxi because I can say without lying that I literally built a house. Even though getting 30 splinters and hammering the same finger 3 times was a blast I must say interacting with the people of Biloxi, the homeowners, and my classmates and fathers was the best part of the trip.
The first couple of days I worked on my house the results were hard to see. I knew we had worked hard and it seemed like we got a lot done throughout the day but looking at the house it didn’t look much different. As the week went on and the roof got built and the list of things to do suddenly got a little shorter I knew we were making a difference in this one man’s life.
Friday night was the best night of the trip. 40 teenage girls, 18 full grown men, and 2 moms sitting in a circle with most crying at some point. Listening to all the other houses stories and listening to everyone’s experiences of the trip taught me even more then I already learned. I will miss Biloxi every time I think of it and I plan on returning at some point to give William and Shorty a visit.

Thursday, June 7, 2007

The week in Biloxi was not at all what I expected it to be. The work, however, was just as tough as i had imagined. The group I was in was actually building a house from the ground up. On the first day of work i remember coming back to the trailer and only wanting to eat and sleep-both of which i did- but i also remember thinking about how there was no way I could do this all week. After all, we only worked about 4 hours the first day, which didn't even come close to the 7 hours I had to look forward to each of the following days. I don't think it was until the final meeting on Friday night that I realized all of my hard work was worth it. That meeting put everything in perspective for me. While I was sitting there listening to all of the experiences and stories from both the girls and the parents I found myself looking back on the week I had. I thought about the man I was building the house for and how much I wished I could help him more. I also thought about all the wonderful people that I got to get to know even better through this experience. All of the dads and daughters were fantastic, and I now have so many new memories with them that will last a lifetime. I did things during this week that I did not expect to. For example, I drove around with Mr. Magee to stop and ask people if they wanted extra food; this is something I would never have even considered doing before. And yes, I even cried at the last meeting. Over all i realized that all the hard work was more than worth it, and this week taught me that there is so much more that needs to be done (not just in Biloxi, but everywhere) and that I really can make a difference. I had a great experience, unlike anything I have ever done before, and was able to share it with wonderful people.

The Blue House

I know it sounds like a cliché at this point, but the week I spent in Biloxi was one of the best of my entire life. I've rarely felt so proud or satisfied with something I've been a part of, and I feel like we made a real difference in the lives of the people we encountered. I was very glad to take part in the two projects I worked on: the Relief Center parking lot and patio, followed by the Blue House (I think there's a picture farther down.) The parking lot was hard work, but it was nice at the end of Tuesday to be able to look at the patio we'd completed and realize that we'd made a real and visible difference. I was also happy to be able to work on a home; we painted a house for a mother and her two children. At first, we were a little taken aback when the family seemed shy, and almost reluctant to interact with us. Mrs. White and Mrs. Yehling explained, though, that the mother seemed embarassed to need help, and had tried to explain why she did. They were amazing people; the mother had had to disobey her boss to return home to her children as the hurricane blew in; during the storm, her cousin had tragically drowned as a rescue team tried to pull her off her roof. Now, the woman whose house we were painting was going to college and working hard to turn the inside of her house into a home; her extremely bright daughter (only a rising sophomore) has already been promised scholarships by Washington University. Once we learned the family's story, all of us were eager to make their house look beautiful for them.
My other favorite part of the week was the Baptist service Reverend Morgan invited us to on Wednesday night. The members of the congregation were so warm and welcoming; the pastor went out of his way to tell us that they were grateful for our presence in Biloxi. We even got up into the choir pews and sang for them: "Testify to Love," and another spiritual. The event that touched me the most was forming a circle around the church and praying the Our Father with these wonderful people that we'd just met. After the prayer, members of the congregation came up to shake hands with and hug us. In a way, the service showed me the true meaning and value of the work we'd come to do in Biloxi.
Thank you so much to Mr. Magee, Mrs. White, Mrs. Yehling, Mr. Finnegan, Mr. Messmer, Mr. Mindel, Mr. Lestmann, and all of the parents who went with us, to the people of Biloxi: you made last week amazing for everyone.
~Jill Patton

Looking Back

Looking back at last week in Biloxi, Mississippi, I can barely even describe how great of an experience it was. Once I was at home I had trouble explaining to my friends and family how awesome it was. The first time I told my parents about it, I cried; and it's hard to tell someone about the best week of my life because I don't even have enough time to say all I need and want to share with them.
I think it was a great experience and it was a great group of girls and dads and moms. I learned a lot about myself and my friends and in general I learned how great it feels to help other people. I know that I want to go back again next year because Biloxi was such a great week and it was honestly the coolest thing I have ever done.
My work group was in Gulfport, which was a short drive away from Biloxi. We were helping Lucy build and finish the new kitchen in her house. When we first walked into a bare room with new windows but just a plywood floor, I wasn't sure how much we would be able to accomplish. But on the last day, nobody wanted to leave early to go to the beach; we all stayed later than some other groups and worked hard to finish as much as we could. When we left they finally had hot water in their house, a new gas stove, tile floor, and cabinents throughout the kitchen. It was an amazing difference from Monday to Friday and I loved how dedicated everyone in my group was. The dads I worked with were so great too because they explained everything to us and were very patient, which I'm sure had to be hard for them. Seeing the look on the family's faces on Friday afternoon made the entire work worthwhile for me and I was really proud of what we were able to accomplish in just five short days. We also made plans with the family to come back next year for a barbeque.
Becky Wissmann
Biloxi was one of the best experiences of my life. I helped those less fortunate and made new friends all in just one week. This is an experience that I will remember for the rest of my life. The people that I interacted with made my experience a memorable one. The first day, our group was to scrape, caulk, prime, and paint a house. It was memorial day, so the people living in the house were having a family barbeque. By the time lunch came around, the famly came out with plates for us. They were so appreciative of our work, and this was there way of showing it. They were always coming outside checking to see if we needed water, trash bags, etc. By the end of the second day we had finished the entire house. It felt so good to see the progress that we made in just a two day period. We wanted to do the best job possible and worked well as a group to accomplish our goals.

On the third day I was assigned to go to Papa Pres' house. He was the cutest man ever. He was so glad to have our company and was always willing to help. He was always giving us something. He gave us each two packs of Certs, he bought us sodas and water, and he always wanted to just sit down and chat with us. Each morning we arrived, he was waiting to enjoy another day of our company. He was such a happy man, and seeing his smiling face everday made the job so much more fun. We were always listening to music and dancinig with Papa Pres. He was so much fun to be around, and I will never forget the generosity and gratefulness of Papa Pres.

The reflection at the end of the trip was one of my favorite memories. I liked listening to other peoples experiences because every person had something different to add to the discussion. Biloxi was a week of fun times and bonding that I will cherish forever. I thank Mr. Magee for making the trip possible, and I thank everyone that came, who made my experience unforgettable.

Megan Krupp

The Final Day

Today was the last day that we worked on our house. The final outcome of our house from when we started was amazing to see. The progress we made in five days was more than I could ever imagine. The Mississippi News came to our work site today because they were doing a special on hurrican relief groups since it was the first official day of hurricane season. I keep in mind all of the optimistic faces that I remember seeing this week from the people who we were called to help this week and I pray for them that they have a safe season free from more hurricane damage. I could not believe it when I heard that it will take another seven to ten years for Biloxi to build back up their city to how it was before Hurricane Katrina hit. I almost don't want to leave because I know that there is so much more that I can do to help out. This trip has exceeded my expectations becacuse I received so much more than I gave from helping others. My favorite part of the day was after the BBQ when we all shared our stories and experiences from the week. It was touching to see how much everyone gained in one week. I think that the dads on this trip had as much fun or more fun than the girls. Even if I am not able to return on this trip next year, it has inspired me to reach out to others and simply, give. One of my favorite mottos from this trip was from a sign in the cafeteria of Seashore which said: "It's not all about you." I have heard this saying from my mom numerous times as well, but I loved this week because for once I felt like it wasn't all about me. I now know that I can make a difference and how much I am really capable of.

-Caitlin Cockerline

Monday, June 4, 2007

Before and After

Last year we built houses, and in the last year,
these people built homes. The pictures on the
right are almost the exact same angles of the same
rooms.

Can't wait until 2008 and we see the houses we
worked on this year.

Sunday, June 3, 2007

Who made the potato salad?

Those were the words that started a special moment for Jennie Rocket, LA Chilly Elk, and myself. We had made a last minute stop to remind Eva Mae for dinner on Friday night. I think she was a little hurt that no one had stopped by since Wednesday. The two girls and I did our best to convince her to come anyway, but she said she could not make it now. We asked several times, but she was dug in and was not changing.

As I was about to close the driver's door, she said "Who made the potato salad?" Soon the four of us were back in Eva Mae's kitchen and she was finding a dish for her potato salad. As we stood there Eva Mae soon was packing up red beans and rice for us. She then pulled sweet potatoes out of her refrigerator, along with corn bread. We soon had a box of food to carry back to our ample supple of food.

An hour and a half into dinner, as I was separating the shrimp. Eva Mae walked in to join us. She also had a dish of fried chicken. Apparently after we left she went to the store, bought chicken, and fried it up. And of course she also made Kool-Aid (1960's style when sugar was king). Ask your daughters about the spirit and the generosity of the people we met.

And finally, I want to thank all 59 people I shared a week with. So often in our world, we wonder who we are and where we fit in. Of all the times in my life, this week I felt I was in exactly the right place with exactly the right people. I am honored to be called your friend and your teacher, you humble me with your talents and your friendship

Mr. Magee

P.S. I made posting a lot easier. Read your e-mails. It is now time for you to share your experiences.

Friday, June 1, 2007

Today was our last day in the Back Bay of Biloxi, Mississippi. This week has been an experience like no other. We left St.Louis May 26 with our group of fourty-two girls ready to work and about seventeen adults ready to teach and supervise. From the gas stations along the highway to the final seafood feast we have learned, befriended, talked, listened, loved, and talk so more to they many people we have encountered. I think that we all feel satisfied with the work we have done and we feel fulfilled in our service experience. We have been immersed in this community and grown in our own Nerinx communities. Adults and children in this group have created a special relationship that would be almost impossible to create back home. I am so proud of this community of people for working together and opening their hearts to grow together. I know that true memories have been made, sincere relationships formed, and I hope that this is not the last year for a trip like this and that everyone touched by this experience will desire to continue this work for a better life for everyone. I also want to give a 6'11 thank you to Mr. Magee who has made this possible and given us a spirit to do this.
-Lauren MacDonald

I love Biloxi, MS!!!! I am also marrying a fish!
-Emily Clote


-This year I worked pretty far from the trailors I stayed in last year. To get to the work site we traveled on the 110 and the 49. Our house was a little blue one, owned by grandparents, but inhabitated by all the family grand children. Our project was their kitchen. When we walked into the room the floor was old wooden floor, which we soon turned to tile. We also added the other essential kitchen items. The kitchen took all week, but it looked good when we finished. I particularily enjoyed the job, because we were blessed with an enthusiastic family, including Cameron, my favorite boy. No one in my group slacked, everyone had a positive. In fact, we all ventured to pet and feed the family pit bull, Big Girl, whom we also named. Thank you Mr Magee (owned of Magee grocery) and everyone else! I'm glad I came back! -kay

Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Nichols Street

Today my group consisting of Mr. Mindel, Mr. Barnes, Kelly Mindel, Krista Murphy, Jenn Halaz, Erin Coyne, and myself continued building our deck for a woman named Sherry and her family. Sherry and her family. Sherry had a massive stroke and can only say yes, no and thank you. For our deck, we have all the frame work and decking done. We started on the roof also. Tomorrow, we will be working on the wheelchair ramp. We all got a chance to nail, saw, and measure boards. Besides all of our boards being crooked, everything is coming along great! Jenn found a ruined photo album with pictures still in it! We expect to finish soon! We are all excited and glad to be helping such a sweet family. There are 3 sons who are around 10, 12 and 14. The house itself is slanted but we did some siding and made it look great.

-Melanie Barnes

Loaves and Fishes

Today was a million times better than yesterday. Because i felt sick yesterday, Mr. Magee was very nice and let me go to the the soup kitchen with Mrs. Yarbrough, Heather, Mary, and Natalie.

I encountered so many amazing people which is different in a whole new way than yesterday. We fed about 70 people, and talked to a few of them. I met a lady with about four teeth who said i looked like her daughter and who i gave my yellow bandana to her because it was "something she wanted. " and an unimportant thing to me. Mary also took a picture with a cute man named Oliver who seemed to love talking to use, getting his picture taken, and being around people.

We also met a man who played the piano wonderfully, sang, and who i and many others mistook for a cd playing. We truly saw the devastation--and only a small, 70 people, portion of it--left over by the hurricane

After the soup kitchen we drove to "divine soul" little walk up restaurant where you order at a window and eat at picnic tables under a pavillion. Mary, Natalie, Heather, and i also tried okra for the 1st time which I am now obsessed with.

After eating we worked on power washing, yet again, mold off a house and scraping paint off the wood so we can repaint it tomorrow. At that house, there were homeless people living in the back yard and i had the pleasure of meeting 2 amazing men.

We talked to them about the hurricande and how one of them told us how he rode a refrigerator for a day until the water level went down. They told about how there was about 6-9 inches of mud and muck left on the ground making it hard to walk in until it dried.

I was very excited to take so many pictures of so many Biloxians and to finally get to interact with the people who live there. i am looking forward to the rest of the week.

Annie Gerker

Monday, May 28, 2007

May 28, 2007

Day 3

Yesterday we arrived in Biloxi and got settled. A few of us went for a walk to the beach and walked around for a while. The beach was really pretty, which I was not expecting at all. Liz went into the water and built a sandcastle and was very excited about it because it was her first trip to the ocean. As we walked home to Back Bay a woman in a beach front house called us over to talk to her. She told us about her house was the only one in that area that had survived the storm. Her neighbors homes had been destroyed by tornadoes. She told us that she and her husband Walter planned to turn their home into a Bed & Breakfast and invited us to all come back on our honeymoons. She began tearing up and thanked us for coming and told us how much everyone down here appreciates us coming. She gave each of us a hug and we continued on our way home where we met another woman named Renee. She told us basically her whole life story, the good and the bad of it, but ended each part with "but that's what God wanted." These woman helped me realize why I came down here.
Today we began working at our sites. I went to 240 Nicholas Street with Mr. Barnes, Melanie, Mr. Mindel, Kelly M., Erin and Krista. We are building a porch/deck for a woman named Sherry who had a stroke so she can only say a few words. Every time she sees us she thanks us for what we're doing. We also three young boys at the house. The oldest introduced them to us and apparently the youngest's name was "dorko". They were really cute. We carried lots of wood, measured, and did lots of nailing. It was hard work, but we're about half way done. As we drove back I noticed a few houses I hadn't the first time I was on the road. They were really bad off. At first I was shocked because I didn't think it was all that bad down here, but now I realize that there is still so much work to be done.
When we all finished our sites for the day, a few of us went down to the beach to hang out. We came back, had dinner, and we've all just been hanging around our trailor. We're all having so much fun. I love it here.
-Jenn Halaz

May 28, 2007

Day 3

Today was our first day of working. Me, Megan Kennedy, and Mary Abernathy went with Mr. Magee to get a ton of water. We then went to almost all the different work sites to make sure they had everything they needed. It was cool to see all the different things that needed to be done. Later on, we went and helped paint at one house. It was nice to know that by just helping paint the celling, we were helping this lady make her house a lot better. We ended working at a different site, where we helped move wood. The girls at this site had accomplished so much today and it was neat to see what they all did. After working, we came back and watched a video on Back Bay Mission and what they do for everyone. After the movie, me and a few other girls went to the beach and just rested there. Four of the girls made dinner for us, spaghetti. We have just spent the rest of the night hanging out. We have a full day of work tomorrow!
-Michelle Klas

May 27, 2007

Day 2

Today we arrived in Biloxi. I did not know what to expect, but I was suprised as to how the living conditions were not as bad as I thought it would be. However, there is work to be done. We did not do any work today. After driving, we saw where we would be sleeping, had dinner, then had a quick meeting. I have not yet seen the site where I will be working, but I am looking forward to do so. SInce we have not done any work yet, I do not have much to write about. I am looking foward to this week and the stories and memories that I will make.
-Krista Murphy

May 27, 2007

Day 2

Today, we woke up to get breakfast and it finally hit me that we are going down there and will make a difference in one person's life. We drove to Biloxi, but not until after attending St. Richard's Church. It was cool to see the difference of their Church from mine. They acknowledged us all and even applauded us. When started getting into Biloxi, I could sense a different atmosphere. There was not as much estruction as there was 1 year ago, but you could tell the town had gone through a lot. Once I got here, I had to re-evaluate my ideas toward this trip. Now, I want to know I made a difference and not just be able to get my service done as soon as possible. Talking with Kay and Amanda made me see that I want to make a difference through the work we do. I have an expectation to see a different kind of world and experience the different culltures that are down here, while; still helping in ANY way possible. I want to make these memories last a lifetime.
-Ashley Joern

Saturday, May 26, 2007

First Day on the Mission

Today we left at 8 am after a good prayer and some hugs goodbye. The ride was nice and long and we're betting most of the girls slept or ate most of the time. The dads/moms were just trucking along with their caffinated beverages, trying to ignore backseat snores. We arrived at the La Quinta Inn in Jackson, Mississippi around 4 and hung out and relaxed until dinner. Dinner was quite a fiesta at El Portillo where we just barley squeezed in with a grupo of sesenta. The dance party was rockin right after dinner and lasted until 9 pm...


We hope to have a stong foundation after mass tomorrow and maybe gain a little guidance for the rest of the week. We are very exicted and are getting to know eachother very quickly. Bonding is a must. We are having alot of fun so far, but we are most excited to experience and sense of service. We cannot wait to see what is in store for us. See you tomorrow!

Thursday, May 24, 2007

I guess God wanted us in Biloxi

As the soccer season wore on, I had thought that our Biloxi trip would not include Taylor, Allison, or Lauren. I have to admit that I was disappointed about this development. I have coached, taught, and been an advisor this year to Allison. Lauren always works hard and makes me laugh and smile plus she's from my hood (shout out St. Dominic Saviooooooooo). Taylor seems like a great kid. We would not have 3 great kids on this trip. As much as I was disappointed, I was actually cheering for this disappointment. I wanted those 3 and a couple dozen more to be State Champions. So was this His plan?

My JV basketball team this year went 26-0. A phenomenal accomplishment, but the math involved says that for every 26-0 team there are 26 25-1 teams and 325 24-2 teams. (Okay not really as I assumed p to be .5, math geeks don't explain this to the others--else we will have too many people at our secret meetings) and the question becomes did God want us to lose? Why Nerinx? Why this time? C'mon the goalie was 2006 Back Bay volunteer Bonnie!

I don't know why this happened? I could explain it in a probability model, but it would not stop the disappointment of our team and our friends. I can only say this, some of my greatest disappointments in my life have been followed by my greatest joys. I would not be at Nerinx today without disappointments and yes, failures in my life. It is okay to say that I failed, because we all do, but my failures in my life have led me to this place, at this time, with you. 43 wonderful girls and 16 wonderful adults. And after failure and setback, I think I take my lessons learned and become a slightly better person. So when we see Allison, Lauren, and Taylor give them a smile and maybe a hug on Saturday and maybe even Sunday for good measure, but after that step aside because the talents and energy of those 3 will surely blend with the talents of our other 40 who were not quite as good as kicking a ball, but have so, so many other talents.

A Proud Teacher

This week is really been a special time.

Today, I got to see the 2007 Class at Loyola Academy graduate.
These are the same kids I coached and taught at 6th graders.

Phillip gave the valedictory address and it was truly one of my proudest
moments as a teacher. Phillip was my responsibility as a sixth grader
and I remember being in his apartment with his parents in the first month
of school trying to convince him what a great opportunity Loyola would be
for him.

I left that place that day, convinced I had lost the argument and Phillip would
soon find his way back to his old school. But today I heard him deliver a
wonderful speech accurately describing his journey from an angry,
apathetic young man to a student who would work hard to fulfill his dreams.

I also was there to award the first annual Pedro Arrupe, S.J. award to my friend
Mike Barry for his hard work behind the scenes raising money for Loyola.
I got to stand up in a room full of people and praise a friend I have known for \
more than 20 years. I hope you all get that opportunity some day. Jen praising Nina,
Ashley praising Emily, or Krista praising Caitlin, just think of the possibilities.

oh, btw, the nicknames are almost done and in my mail today a present for each of
you has arrived. I hope you take the time in the next couple of days to find some time
in silence so you can listen to yourself.

This week can be a truly extraordinary experience.

Wednesday, May 23, 2007

Less than 80 hours

I just got back from the last 5 innings of the ball game. I had a basketball meeting, so I gave my tickets away to Nerinx alum, Casey Kraft and her sister. I was able to make the game, by the fourth inning and saw a good Cardinal win.

Last year, I got so tired of Sports Radio and the pessimists. I just decided the Cardinals would win the World Series. Ask my friends., I was on board from early in the season.

The Cardinals last year, were a good way to look at the world. Can you imagine being a pessimist for your entire life, and never seeing our world at its best. I am much more happier being an optimist. And I have met great optimists in my life, and I am excited that we are going to be enjoined on this trip, by one of the greatest optimists in my life through her granddaughter. Phyllis Allen was always happy, and always said kind words about me growing up. There was not a time, I saw her where she did not tell me what a great person I was and what a great family the Magee's were. She is definitely a person who in a small way has molded me to be the optimist that I am.

I hope and trust that this can be a great trip for all of us. The response from our Nerinx students has been phenomenal, and the number of moms and dads that are going.. We have an amazing crew and the talents from our parents will amplify the gifts that your daughters will give to the people of the Back Bay. NH is truly a special place. So I encourage all of you to think about what we are trying to do, and commit to the goals of Service and Sharing.

And if you have ever met Phyllis Allen, she would tell you, you are a special person, and then she would get you to laugh.. So for all of our grandmothers, who have always been proud of us. I encourage you to work your best, spend a week living simply, and remember to laugh at all of Mr. Magee's jokes and it will be a good week.

So, I am going to think